How to Cope

I get calls and emails all the time from the many people who read this blog. They’re all pretty much asking me the same question.
Jim, how do you cope with the fact of knowing you have cancer and that it may very well kill you within the next 6-12 months.
My answer is pretty simple…. Just one Day at a Time!.
I also think it more difficult for those people around you that love you then it is for myself. Oh sure there are many time of solitude that I think why me god and I’m scared. But I try to flash back to that plack I saw on Dr Ally wall…..
Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, It’s about learning to dance in the rain!
As we all know, our results are only as good as our plan. One of my mentors, taught me that it’s not what happens that determines the major part of our future, because what happens, happens to us all.
Instead, he taught me the key is what we do about it.
If we start the process of change by developing a plan, doing something different in this next year than we did the previous year, it won’t matter how small those efforts start.
Start doing “different” things with the same set of circumstances – the ones we’ve always had and cannot change – and see what miracles occur.
If we start the miracle process and change ourselves, then everything changes. And here’s what is interesting: the difference between success and failure is so subtle.
Let me explain by giving you my definitions of failure and success.
Here it is: Failure is a few errors in judgment repeated every day. The man says, “Well I didn’t walk around the block today and it didn’t kill me, so it must be okay.”
No, it’s this kind of error in judgment that after six years has him out of breath and panting as he walks from his car to his office. You can’t make those kinds of mistakes; it will end up costing you.
Now, here is my definition of success: A few simple disciplines practiced every day.
Do you see the distinction? A few disciplines. Here’s a little phrase we’ve all heard: “An apple a day keeps the doctor away.” And my question to you is, “What if that’s true?” How simple and easy is that plan?
The fact is, when you look at successful people, you will almost always DISCOVER a plan behind their success. They know what they want, they work out a plan that will get them where they want to go, and they work their plan.
It is the foundation for success. We as humans have the unique ability to produce change in our lives; it is through our own conscious choice when we engage in the miracle process of personal development that we are able to transform our nature and our lives.
A Little Inspiration When You Need It :
These quotes tell a different tale, one of survival, endurance and the ability of a willing human spirit to conquer most anything.
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Your moment Today is the day things will start to go right. Now is the moment when life can begin to be the best that you can imagine.
The time has now arrived for you to make real, substantial and lasting progress. For you are, without a doubt, ready, willing and able.
The past is no longer in a position to hold you back. This is a new day, and every disappointment is already far behind you.
Ahead, there are possibilities too numerous to even count. Look closely, with your heart, and the best of those possibilities will come shining through.
There is no reason to hold yourself back any longer. This is your moment to shine, this is your day to live with fullness, with richness, with joy and with love.
This very moment, all of life surrounds you, supports you, encourages you and pulls you toward the best you can be. Dive in to the golden opportunity that is now, and know how it feels to be fully alive…
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